What's Wrong With Cougar City Girls?

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Date: Mon, 28 Feb 2011 Time: 3:22 AM
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There appears to be a good deal of controversy surrounding ABC's new television presenting Cougar Town. Courteney Cox stars because the bumbling, neurotic, unfiltered, insecure, desperate lady trying to reclaim the folly of her 20's submit divorce. The issue is, she by no means had her 20's. She was chaotic currently being pregnant and then raising her subsequent offspring.

Her characterization flies in the encounter of what a genuine Cougar woman is, a lot so, that a single has to wonder if she acts this way in your own home. Following all, she Is a Cougar in genuine lifestyle and is married to a guy various years her junior.

I've heard many Cougar women on my internet site complain," This is not who we are as Cougars! What's Wrong with this image?"

What's wrong may be the media who has yet again grabbed at the brass ring of ratings and offered out a demographic of ladies and painted them using the broad brush stroke of desperate, horny, older females ready to jump on something with a pulse.

Absolutely nothing could possibly be father through the reality. True Cougar ladies are discriminating and selective. They are not going to jump simply because some youthful guy hits them up on the internet site. You can find far much more young men from whom to decide on. Cougars can have their select with the litter.

Admittedly, there are a few women out there who will gown inappropriately, hang out at bars and swill down white wine and take home more youthful males for casual sex. From my psychological point of view, these females have problems with on their own that warrant an analysis, feasible medicine and years of psychotherapy. Females who regularly take part in casual, indiscriminate sex likely did so once they were youthful. This is not a part of getting a Cougar. It really is a part of having a diagnosable illness for example Bipolar Dysfunction, Borderline Persona Condition and the like.

For about a 12 months I have created this dating dynamic an a part of my own investigation and written many articles about it. The minority of Cougar women are being sensationalized into a false bulk as boy chasing, leopard print wearing, desperate, horny, aging floozies. In reality, the majority of Cougar ladies are moms, aunts, CEOs, nurses, laptop or computer programmers, advertising executives, office managers, lawyers, physicians, keep in your own home moms, and would no more act just like the Cougar City women in public than they would elevate their fingers to volunteer for a root canal without anesthesia.

What is wrong with the stereotype of the Cougar girl is always that they act also a lot much like the male jerks ladies consider in any way charges to avoid. Grabbing men's butts in bars, throwing their leg more than a man's shoulder in public to demonstrate their "flexibility" and acting out like junior high school women isn't why youthful males are drawn to older girls. Treating guys like intercourse objects in an energy to "be equal" to men who have handled girls like intercourse objects for so lengthy isn't going to increase our bar. It lowers it to your exact same degree of base habits that we detest.

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