Swinger couples - What is swinging

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Date: Thu, 20 Jan 2011 Time: 4:41 PM
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Have you ever wondered what Swinging is? Have you ever heard about swinger couples? Its been said that swinging is "social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your partner, with the full knowledge and consent of that person." There are a lot of misconceptions out there to what swinging actually is , so let's go over a few of the finer points to this time-honored trysting tradition.

It can take place at a private residence, at a party or with a third person in a threesome. The swinger couples like having sex with other people as well as, and along with, their regular partner. They can also get off on watching their partner have sex with someone else, like sharing their fantasies with their partner and other people or just enjoy having sex with lots of people. An example can be seen here Local Swingers Dating


It is also known as sharing, partner or wife swapping, it basically comes down to the fact that people participating in the swinging lifestyle are consenting adults enjoying the experience of having sexual relationships with multiple partners. You can find swinging communities throughout the world as this is an activity that has no cultural boundaries!

A lot of swingers like to think of it as swinging for fun, that enjoy sex, meeting people as an opposed to a steady relationship with one person.

Swinging has become a popular recreational activity for broad minded adults and couples. The most common method is an adult couple (male & female), meeting other couples for sex and sometimes lasting intimate relationships.

In a nutshell swinging is about having sex with other people, it may take many forms;
Parties/Orgies with partner swapping or group sex
Gang Bangs
Couples meeting up and having sex with each other
Watching your partner having sex by lots of people
Specialist swinging. For example, finding swingers with fetishes to play out fantasies

Swinging is also known as the lifestyle or the scene and may take on a wide variety of different forms.

Good communication is essential to avoid disappointment, often its a good idea to find out what is expected when meeting blind to avoid unpleasant encounters.

There are cases that one partner would be interested in swinging but have no idea how his partner would react. So rather than arranging a meeting and tell your spouse about it at the last minute, better engage them in chat about their fantasy's and see how they react when you mention 2 couples in a bed scenarios.

There's a big difference between swinging and cheating, as most swingers are open and honest with their partners they are unlikely to be receptive to people cheating on their partners in order to have sex. Most of the swinginging community is made up with like minded swinging couples that like to share. Single women and single bi-sexual women are generally welcome to join swinger couples.

Many people starting off in the swinging world to try get their freinds involved, you should remember that what is fun and seems natural to you may not be for them, better to ask yourself if you are maying to risk loosing their freindship. Another thing to consider when encouraging people you know to engage in the swinging lifestyle is that if you end up having sex with them on a regualr basis emotions could come into play and this could lead to complications.

Do remember, that everyone has the right to say no, if you meet someone and for whatever reason find them not suitable be honest and tell them why as tactfully as you can. This is a two way thing so don't be too upset or offended if it happens to you, it goes with the territory.

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