Top Ten Online dating DO'S.

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by: alisasssls
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Date: Sun, 2 Jan 2011 Time: 7:33 PM
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1. Do loosen up and have fun. Dating is actually allowed to be fun so ensure it is fun. Choose activities that you both love so that you can unwind, laugh and enjoy. If you believe online dating is gloomy, in that case don't do it.

2. You should groom yourself before your date. Make sure you are freshly showered, have fresh breath and select an outfit that flatters you. Save your crazy or excessively sexy clothes for when you get to know the person.

3. Its important to listen. Listening is more important than talking. Ask your date many questions and talk about similar likes and dislikes. Do not talk about yourself consistently because that is the ultimate turn-off.

4. Its important to pay your date complements. If you believe your date looks nice, say so. Do not concentrate on your date's flaws; focus on their good points. Regardless of whether it appears your date took time to get ready, compliment them by letting them know you have picked up on this.

5. You should be positive. Don't complain on your date. Nobody wants to hear how miserable you are. A poor attitude can destroy a date faster than anything.

6. Do be honest and upfront. If your date did not click, inform your partner you will have to think about it and you will make contact with them again if you are interested in going further.

7. Ensure you are proactive. It is advisable to take the initiative to meet people to date. Practice flirting, smile, always be friendly and make eye-to-eye contact. This will show people you're on the market and will increase your likelihood of being asked out.

8. You should date creativelydon't take the easy option. Never go to the cinema or other places where you are unable to chat or get to know your date. Go for food, bowling and then a movie after you have had chance to talk or go horseback riding, hiking or to an arts event.

9. Ensure you tell family and friends you are dating. You'll never know if somebody you know might try their hand at playing matchmaker on your behalf. It might or may not work out but it's another avenue you should not ignore.

10. You should be courteous and have manners. Offer to pay for all or even 50 percent of the date even if you are the lady. Say "please" as well as "thank you" and be sincere of the other individuals feelings.

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Al lectured on inter racial relationships for 15 years at Oxford University after experiencing the difficulties of a mixed race marriage

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