What is Natural Game? Structural Vs Going all Natural

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by: GabrielAngelo
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Date: Wed, 5 Jan 2011 Time: 2:50 PM
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There are in essence 2 kinds of social interaction classified you are in whenever you head out: structural and natural. Being structural is when you are utilizing any structured linear process of interacting, almost like an already prepeformed social performance that you have successfully done before, hence a specific routine.

An example of this would be using the classic M3 Model contributed by the pick-up artist Mystery, in which you are using attraction followed by comfort and then leading up to seduction, broken down into different phases, A1, A2, A3, C1, C2, C3, S1, S2, and S3. (For those who are unfamiliar with the M3 Model, these respectively parallel to Opening, Female-to-Male Interest, Male-to-Female Interest, Conversation, Connection, Intimacy, Foreplay, Last Minute Resistance, and Sex)

And by being natural, you are basically in the moment and winging it, but that doesn't mean you are NOT utilizing some kinds of a little bit of a structure because at times, something will just come into your head when you are winging it that will cause you to do a part of a social performance, part of that routine, which could be the old joke you have told in the past or stories.

In this case of talking to a girl for example, if you approached her and she is already attracted to you within the first minute, you have already skipped all the attraction needed to be built and no longer need to attract the girl; and you can add in some routines you have rehearsed in the past that built comfort magically, but not necessary the exact same things. (You are editing your social performance.)

But how do you get there where you can wing it as a natural, but most importantly do it effectively, instead of coming off as a creep or a wimp.

Well, if you look at some of the best pickup-artists today who were once socially incompetent, you will see a majority of them started out utilizing some sorts of structure to guide them to transforming into a natural, if they did not, they were already naturals to begin with; and they got so familiar with that structure that it became ingrained into their mind where now they do everything right that gets the girl subconsiously and spontaneously without needing to think about it, which to everybody else appears natural.

Remember first learning to read back when you when you were a kid?

You know I always thought it was pointless to learn the name of the alphabet, but now I realized that it was a learning phase to being a spontaneous, natural reader. First you learned the alphabet, then the alphabetical phonics, and then using the structural mnemonic sounds of the letters, you became a natural, sponatneious reader able to pronounce every new word you come across.

This is similar for social dynamics. You wouldn't properly start out if you weren't giving some guidelines or structures, or else you would be doing a lot of social miscalibration by being all natural; hence, come across as unnatural. Why does social miscalibration matter?.

Well, there are a couple of reasons, but the main reason is you could without being awared of it come across a creeper or weirdo and loss a lot of social proof. When other girls see that, your chance are slim to getting her because as you know, girls are always thinking about their status, and having you being labeled as the creep, she doesn't want to be affiliated with a creep.

Now I am not saying one is better than the over, or vice-versa, but I am an advocate of using both in synergy to reach total social mastery because that is exactly where you will want to be eventually!

About the Author

Gabriel Angelo runs http://www.socialnatural.com, with the unique approach to dating and meeting women, by focusing on developing your "social skills" to be the most socially savvy person you can be, not just with women...but everybody. Although the arts are primarily related to dating and attracting women, they can be applied to other aspects of your life from social, dating, personal, and even professional.

For more information, please visit http://www.socialnatural.com.